Monthly Archives: February 2011

Big Talker, Please Go Away!

photo by: Thomas Hawk

Have you ever been in situation where a friend had a big plan ahead, saying this and that, talk nice thing about how he saw himself in future: rich, glorious, and success. You praised him and you thought that he will be a successful man someday. After a while, you stumbled upon that man, and you realized he was still the same, talk nice about big plan and how it the project was going make him rich and all. After that day, you will avoid — at all cause — from seeing him ever again, because he is a big-talker who actually doesn’t do much, but talk much as if he was Datuk of the year.

This is when I fell unproductive when meet people like that. Yes, I’m talking like I’m innocent. But the truth is, I also act like big talker, sometimes. Thanks to my wife as she has been so brutality honest with me. It was hurt for the first time, but it is for the good after all.

Lifehack wrote:

”Step 1. Don’t talk big. Big-talkers are notorious under do-ers, under-achievers and under-performers. They’re also pains in the arse”

There’s a different between dream big and big talkers. Go ahead and dream big, because with careful planning and proper goal, you will achieve your dream. As for big talker, they foresee what they will become or how their dream will be reality someday, but they will never get a grip — not even close — to get what they want. If only big talker don’t talk too much, do proper planning, take prompt action.

[12 Things To Get Things Done via Lifehack]

My Breastfeeding Diary : Welcome Formula Milk!!!

After 9months 2 weeks, welcome formula milk.

Last 2weeks, Widad having sore throat. She cough terribly until her throat reddened . She having problem to swallowed, refuse to eat and breastfeed, cannot sleep because hungry. Pity Widad.

So that, we decided to try Widad on formula milk. She struggled to swallow the foods that we feed her, she  cried when foods passed through her throat, she refused to breastfeed.  In fact she close her mouth tightly from anything to enter her mouth..She need to eat for energy.

Alhamdulillah, after giving her drink formula milk from bottle. she can take it. She drank and fall asleep after that. I knew I can give my EBM using bottle like I use to do at nursery, but i do not have enough supply for her.

Its ok Widad, formula milk pun sedap cuma tak sesedap susu mummy…  :D

Phobias; I Successfully Overcome It

Photo by : Driving-fear
Driving Phobia
I’ve been driving a car nearly 7 years for now. Within 7 years, I was involved only 3 minor accidents. 1st, after 1month become a car driver. I accidentally hit a 1tonne lorry parked in front of our house. 2nd time, when I was waiting Mr Hubby at his office. Then a MPV limo suddenly reserved even tho i already give loud honk to give warning about my car behind him. The limo’s driver claim that my car is too small yet he can’t see my car. The last one when Widad was crying loudly struggling to come out from her car seat  and I was about to turn my body to see her. Without realizing it, I had lifted the right leg on break pedal. Then kedeboom.. my car kiss the front car..
Alhamdulillah, I successfully managed to overcome my fear with just one test. How I managed to pass the test, I also do not know. I was all panicked, sweating, shivering, my mouth non-stop berdoa.  I finally made it to finish line and the JPJ’s officer told me ” OK AWAK LULUS”.. fuhhhh
Driving Phobia via PhobiaFearRelease.com

Photo by : Childfreedom

Tocophobia Phobia or Childbirth Phobia
Giving birth to Amirul is really tough. 1st experience always leave a deep scar.. huhuh. Started with broken water bag in the middle of the night, 3 weeks earlier from EDD, lack of physical and mental preparations, no idea of how the right pushing technique, almost fainted due to excessive etonox gas and most of all, the nurse was wrongly sewn my perineum. They sewn twice. Ingat jahit baju ke kak oi… I was very afraid to give birth. I afraid the same thing might happen to me again.

However, Alhamdulillah when came to Widad. I physically and mentally prepared. I googled the correct breathing technique to push the baby, I learn not to be panicked, I read about the correct and comfortable position while pushing the baby. Although Mr Hubby can not get into labor room, I managed to give birth after 20 minutes

Childbirth Phobia via Ezinearticles

Photo by : Livestrong

Water phobia
There is a small river connected to Sg Kelantan behind my house back to the hometown. During musim tengkujuh sure, rumah dinaiki air, still I do not how to swim. When I got married to Mr Hubby, his hobby is swimming. He will become like itik mendapat air, tergedik-gedik nak swimming. While he go swimming, I will only be on the edge of swimming pool while watching him excitedly swim.

However, last week, I had signed up for swimming class. Grouping class but one-to-one teaching method. I like !!! Its so fun when you able to float, breathing in the water and use sliding board. Can’t wait to swim with Mr Hubby. Finally I managed to overcome fear of water

Set A Good Example In Front Of Your Kids

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If you want your children to be friendly with warm smile, you have to make your yourself as a role model in front of them. First, try to greet and bid with your couple, then the children will follow as they realize that is the way decent human treat each other.

If you don’t want to come home to a kid who won’t look up from the TV to say hello, the best approach is to set a good example. If you always greet the family and bid them goodbye, your kids will pick up on your habits starting around age 2. When Mom comes home, for instance, Dad might give her a kiss and a hearty “Hello! How was your day?” When Dad’s on his way out the door, Mom and the kids might give him a hug or say, “Have a nice day, Daddy.”

Every morning we practice kisses and hugs before we go to the office and what follows after that is Amirul start kisses and hugs me everything I reach the door knob.

[How to teach your child to say hello, goodbye, please, and other nice words via BabyCenter]

Saya Mahu Resepi Dari Blog Dapur Tanpa Sempadan

My new hobby is cooking. Cooking is like a therapy. Some people go shopping for therapy, but with limited money in purse, cooking is the best therapy for me.. huhhh.

Beside the main course like Ayam Masak Merah (my expertise), Ayam Masak Kicap, Ayam Goreng, telor dadar, etc, I like baking. I’d bake cakes, muffins, pastries and pizzas. My De Longhi Oven serve me well. Every week there is baking activity. Whether or not the cake/muffin/pastry turn to be ok, I still keep on experimenting the recipes. Of course the food testers are Mr Hubby, Amirul & Widad..

There are many blogs that I used to make as reference, but the most I like is, a Dapur Tanpa Sempadan aka Mat Gebu. Besides his own recipes, he also adopt from others and make by his own version. Most of Mat Gebu’s recipes are easy and simple to make. Perfect for me. Budak baru nak belajar la katakan.. huhhuh. There are some recipes, Mat Gebu will show a step-by-step like the recipe below.

Photo & Recipe by : Mat Gebu ; Pandan Cheese Cake

Inspired by Mat Gebu’s recipe, I have managed to make a banana muffin cheese.The original recipe from the Mat Gebu, but was prepared by me, based on ingredients available at home.

Combination of Banana Choc-Chip Muffin & Marble Cheese Brownies

and this is the result :

Banana Cheese Muffin

My white mice aka foods tester

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Huda’s Kitchen : Banana Cheese Muffin


 Banana Cheese Muffin

Ingredients A

  • 2 cups of flour
  • 1/2 tablespoon of baking powder
  • 1/2 tablespoon of soda bicarbonate
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 3/4 cup of sugar
  • 3 cups of blended banana (add 1/2 cup of water when blend the banana)
  • 1/4 cup of oil

Ingredients B

  • 250 gm cream cheese
  • 60 gm sugar
  • 1tsp essence vanilla
  • 1 egg

Method A

  1. In a bowl, add flour, baking powder, soda bicarbonate, salt, and sugar. Mix well using fork.
  2. Add blended banana and oil into the bowl. Mix well

Method B

  1. Beat the cream cheese. vanilla essence and sugar.
  2. Add egg and beat until creamy.

Put 1 tablespoon of banana batter inside muffin cup layered with 1 teaspoon of cheese batter. Covered 1 teaspoon of banana batter on top of cheese batter. Decorate with chocolate chips on top of it.

Bake for 25minutes at 190 Celsius

Relationship And The Listening Ear

Photo: aftab

One thing that I learned about a girl — especially my girl , is that she wants to share all the problem in the world, even the problem is not hers, and she talks even when I watch a movie. In the end, she frown in frustration as I always gave solutions right before she finished talking. Or, I  didn’t want to listen about it so I simply ignored it. Then, I realized that’s not the way to treat a girl — especially my girl. Most of the girls actually knew the solution, which I find it so outrageous. They only want somebody to talk with.

Celes wrote:

“Giving solutions when the person is really looking for a listening ear. Probably an understatement: A lot of times what people want is a listening ear. Deep down, people have solutions to the problems they are facing – they are just looking for someone to share their frustrations with because they have had a long and hard day. I had a friend who would always butt in with suggestions whenever I shared my frustrations. Our conversations became stifling – in the end I stopped talking about them altogether because I wasn’t getting the refuge I wanted. Be more conscious of what the other party is looking for, and adjust accordingly to fit that.”

I slowly change my attitude and try to listen about anything she wants to talk about. Even though my mind will be going somewhere the moment she starts to open her mouth, I’ll try and try hard to nod and smile.

[10 thing what not to do in relationship via StepcaseLifeHack]

[Self exp]

“Giving solutions when the person is really looking for a listening ear. Probably an understatement: A lot of times what people want is a listening ear. Deep down, people have solutions to the problems they are facing – they are just looking for someone to share their frustrations with because they have had a long and hard day. I had a friend who would always butt in with suggestions whenever I shared my frustrations. Our conversations became stifling – in the end I stopped talking about them altogether because I wasn’t getting the refuge I wanted. Be more conscious of what the other party is looking for, and adjust accordingly to fit that.”

[10 thing what not to do in relationship via how ]

Angry Bird is for Me

Angry Bird is an addictive, clever, and challenging puzzler – Chris Holt of Macworld

Angry Birds as the fourth best iPhone game of all time – Imagine Games Network

Angry Bird developed by Finland-based Rovio Mobile where the player use the slingshot to launch birds at pigs stationed on or within various structures, with the intent of destroying all the pigs on the playfield – Wikipedia

Mr Hubby done with this game, now Amirul is playing.Why suddenly I’m writing about this game??? I played this game but not addicted to it, but i love the bird sound.. huhuhuh. Its all because Mr Hubby just gave me Angry Bird Flush toy.

Mr Hubby surprised me with Angry Bird flush toy. Buy this cute birdie at Angrybirds.com

My 2011 Parenting Goals

Photo: iUnique FX

I know I should post this resolution last month, but January was a hectic month for me. My work at the office also needed me to planning and setting the goal for 2011. So I had to put aside other matters and concentrated to my office work for a while. For this month, I have all the time in the world to update my post, and I hope it wouldn’t be too late for the new year’s resolution.

Actually I have been planning inside my brain on December last year, then after that, I only have firm goal on mid January. I put my parenting goals on paper and hope to stick to it. The main objective of my parenting goals is to be a better parent who understand the need of my children in many aspects such as education, health, and emotion. I hope to attend more parenting talk, classes, discussions than I did last year.

These are the 7 parenting goals for 2011. I wonder whether I could achieve all the goals without getting past through big and heavy obstacles along the way.

1. Unleash Amirul’s Speech
I have bought one dedicated notebook to enlist all the words Amirul has been said for all his life. It doesn’t matter whether Amirul can pronounce properly or not. As long as Amirul point at something and say something German — that we couldn’t understand — it also considered a word. For an instance,  Amirul says EEUU everytime he sees crane, digger, and tower crane, and I have to write down EEUU as one of his word in the book. I hope Amirul can speak his own name, favorite things; tractor, cars, crane, train, favorite animals; fish, elephant, giraffe, favorite character; Woody, Buzz Lightyear, Kung Fu Panda, Toy Story, and, Despicable Me before my birthday.

2. Amirul Can Make Three Basic Sentences Before My Birthday.
I want my son to practice a full sentence when he wants something important to him especially milk; his essential resource for food. Another sentence that I want him to practice is to say he wants to watch his favorite cartoon. And the last one is saying “Daddy/Mommy, I Love You So Much”

3. Read and review more books about parenting maybe one book one months
Last year, I have bought several books about parenting at BigBadWolf because they sold the book at the very low price. I was tempted and felt I will lose my insanity if I ignore the deal and walk away. So I hurt my credit card balance so easy that I have to pay off two thirds the amount with my yearly bonus. Okay. I have succeded on buying the books on bargain last year. What I’ve failed was getting myself to read all the title. I have no time to read or I was too lazy too read or I deliberately didn’t put up any efforts to fuel up my reading habit. But this year, I want to finish reading one parenting book per month. This does not include reading the mountain of fiction novels worth RM300++.

4. Fully utilize ipad as a teaching tools for Amirul.
One thing that I love about iPad is it can be a powerful teaching tool. One significant improvement that I see is he can arrange puzzle (for kids) without much troubles. He also learn  to pronounce alphabet every night as it is interactive and fun. Most of the apps are kids-friendly and the multimedia presentations are attractive. I also follow iPadForKids to get news and tips.

5. Maintain 30 – 60 Minutes Of Teaching Amirul.
We have met the doctor on our latest speech therapy session, 2, 3, and the doctor gave me homework to do — learn to follow instructions, build lego imitation, and new nouns and verbs. So every I have teach Amirul — from Mondays to Fridays at least 30 minutes and up to one hour with many break because Amirul only can concentrate in short time.

6. Bela arnab.
Amirul loves watching animals especially chicken and fish. He already own the fish and I can’t effort to pet chicken: it needs hardwork to keep up the hygiene of the surroundings and I couldn’t stand the smell of the chicken’s drop. I have decided to pet rabbit instead.

7. Maintain My Sanity When Nursing My Children.
Ok, here’s my weaknesses: my voice becomes thunder of high octane, when amirul doing somethig wrong and naughty, or when he didn’t listen — intentionally or not — to my instruction. Ever since I became a father, my heart becomes easily broken when things don’t go my way. I’m so fragile that I lost my temper when my family member doesn’t follow my demand. If something happened against my will, I get angry easily. Or when I things went unexpected — like Widad cries all of the sudden without a reason — I lose my insanity. This year I want the dark side of me to be vanished and make changes for the good of the family. But somehow it is not an easy goal, and this is the biggest challenge: avoid the insanity.

Hope and Fears
Every slot of time is counted. Every positive progress leads to accomplishment of a goal. So I hope I could meet all my goals without many challenging obstacles. Although, it is good to experience challenging obstacles — they will make you a better man — but I’m afraid that I couldn’t carry on and stop the train in the middle of a railway before its destination. The only person that can catapult me further and further is my wife, with her enthusiastic mommy spirit — and her homemade brownies.

Let Talk About Sex: After The Baby

Photo: SamCaplat

Let talk about sex: After the baby have some awesome questions about sex after the baby came out.

As for my experience, I start having sex 120 days after giving birth. It’s about 4 months of cravings and feeling numb. I’m a kind of husband who really needs that kind of intimacy once in every 2 days — I always want it everyday, actually — but I have to reconsider the quantity to once in every week because we have two kids right, and no housemaid to do cleaning and all. So, the first two months, it was no problem. The third and all the way to the fourth month, my mind went insane like I was in Jupiter or somewhere strange, and I started I have nightmares.

The reason I want the 120 days rule to work, is because I want to avoid unexpected bleeding, a risk for hemorrhage — which is very bad, or uterine infection.

And above all that, one question caught my attention,

Baby center wrote:

“Q:How will having a new baby in our lives change our feelings toward each other?
A: You may find (or your partner may sense) that the intensity of the bond you’re developing with your new baby makes you somewhat less emotionally available. On the other hand, a new baby can bring such joy to your lives that it enhances sexual intimacy.If your mate is feeling jealous or intimidated by your new relationship with the baby, try to reassure him that you still love and need him. And make sure that he has plenty of opportunity to care for and bond with the baby as well. Sharing the joys and frustrations of parenthood can be very rewarding and can even intensify your romantic feelings for each other.”

To get out of curiosity about other husbands who just have babies,  I have voted a survey, and came the result like this;


My vote was this; Yes, motherhood has made her even hotter. In bed. Guess many husbands feel the same.

Plus, She became slimmer than ever after our baby Widad.

To me, romantic relationship is when we know we have determination to change physically and emotionally to impress each other.

[Let talk about sex: after the baby via babycenter]

The Bad Influences of TV to Toddlers; Amirul loves to be Ultraman Cosmos

To avoid Amirul from mess up with my cooking and cleaning time, I will switch on the TV and lets him watch his favorite cartoons downloaded by his daddy. His favorite movies; Up, Madagascar, Toy Story, Khan Kluay, How to teach your Dragon, etc

To me, since his Daddy is the one who downloaded the movies, of course he had filter which one is good for Amirul and which one is not. Besides good entertainment and occupied his time, the movies also ideal for toddler. They have positive influences, good messages and value for toddlers to follow. Like Madagascar, Amirul learns recognizing the animals, learn the value of friendship through How to teach you dragon and value of family from Up.

Photo by : Priblog

However, lately, Amirul starts watching Ultraman Cosmos and Ben 10 on Youtube. Aisehhh, I don’t like it. It’s so much of violent  and punching here and there actions. Despite of the fact Ultraman try to safe the world from Monster attack.

Toddlers are not only watching, but they also will imitate what they see. They still unable to determine what is seen is good or bad. For example; Amirul will only replicate what ultraman do without knowing the fight was bad behavioral actions. He do not know that fighting is violent acts.

In order to prevent any bad influences coming from TV programme, as a parent, we need constantly monitor what our toddlers watched and do not watch unsuitable programme with them


Amirul with his Ultraman Cosmos action

Toddler and Television via Ezinearticles

Of iPad and Bicycle



Photo:esti

Tie their shoes and use a smartphone application are not realistic and comparable issues. They will learn – it’s just a matter of time – how to do tie their shoes someday. That doesn’t concern me as a parent. But unable to compete and become orangutans in the field of the most important industry: ICT, will bother me for the rest of my life.

“Software maker AVG Technologies conducted a survey amongst 2,200 women and found that 14 percent of kids aged 4 to 5 could tie their shoes-compared to 21 percent who knew how to use a smartphone or iPad application.”

Admit it, video games or advanced technologies that can wow our eyes, also make our heart beats faster, and bicycle is so over us. Back when I was a kid, me and my brother were blinded by Nintendo, Micro Genius, and [link: other pioneer gaming consoles] in the 80s. Like a wheel of bicycle, It happened as well as to our younger generations — only with more technological advanced gadgets.

“Among kids aged 2 to 5, 52 percent knew how to ride a bike, while 58 percent could play a computer game and 69 percent could operate a computer mouse. Twenty percent knew how to swim, but 25 percent could open a Web browser.”

The reason why I don’t get mad when my children choose iPad over bicycle is because they need to be well-versed in ICT by getting exposed to technologies – that’s my goal. It’s okay if they dislike bicycle. I force them to learn swimming.

[Kids prefer iPad or smartphone to a new bike via MalaysiaSun ]

Give Hugs And Kisses Encourage Child’s Self-Esteem

Photo By: JetSharkLambo

When I look into the eyes of my son, I know that he can be a confidence and high self-esteem boy. Only sometimes, my strictness discourage him to do things creatively. That’s the weakness of authoritative parenting style, or chinese parenting style; your children are limit to explore something new because they might afraid their parent disapproval.

BabyCenter Wrote:

Give unconditional love. A child’s self-esteem flourishes with the kind of no-strings-attached devotion that says, “I love you, no matter who you are or what you do.” Your child benefits the most when you accept him for who he is regardless of his strengths, difficulties, temperament, or abilities. So lavish him with love. Give him plenty of cuddles, kisses, and pats on the shoulder. And don’t forget to tell him how much you love him. When you do have to correct your child, make it clear that it’s his behavior — not him — that’s unacceptable. For instance, instead of saying, “You’re a naughty boy! Why can’t you be good?” say, “Pushing Gabriel isn’t nice. It can hurt. Please don’t push.
Regardless of how my children get rotan or pinch or cubit, I — always and never will forget — kiss them every night before going to bed. Every time they outcome obstacles such as flash card exercise, learning ABC, or doing puzzle (on iPad), I give hugs and kisses, and tell them, ‘I always love you’

Lend Money To Friends Without Ruining Friendship

Photo: maol

First thing, don’t expect you will get your money back when you lend your money to your friends. What April Dykman, staff writer of GetRichSlowly, wrote is hundred percent right. I have seen a lot of my friends are never getting their money back, or at least pay a third of the full amount – after you pursuing them like a madman.
For all my life, I never lend any money to a friend, I rather say, “No, I have no money” right now than see our relationship crumble and collapse in future.
Furthermore, the money problem will never get solved even after give loan to your friends.

Dykman wrote:

“Unfortunately, my friend continued to have money problems, and eventually she was evicted. Her boyfriend was fired from the job after a few weeks. While I feel for her, that’s the extent of how much I can help her — at least financially. I don’t regret our decision to help out, and though the money is gone, our friendship has remained intact, which was my primary concern when she asked for help.”
As for me, I only lend money only to my family and relatives – the only group of persons that I trust.

[How To Lend Money To Friends via GetRichSlowly]

The Good Side of Nursery/Daycare

After Widad’s birth, I had decided to send Amirul and Widad to nursery due to babysitter problems. The most difficult decision for me to do because never comes across my mind to send my kids to nursery as early as 2 years. I always think that nursery is a place for children aged 4 year and above where they can complaints, have good immunization systems and more independent. With     many unpleasant stories about nurseries, I’m hoping they safe while in the nursery.

However, after nearly 9 months in the nursery, Alhamdulillah, I can see so much positives changes on Amirul as well as Widad.

Amirul positive changes:

  • A shy and introvert to active kid. Amirul needs time to start socialize with other. However, after being in environment that have many friends around, he had begun to make friend easily.
  • He wants to talk. Started from Jan 2011, he has go through speech therapy session at Putrajaya Hospital and also some playgroup session at nursery. He shows interest to speak eventho in his own language
  • Discipline. Being in nursery with timetable and rules to do what and when, Amirul becomes more discipline. Even us also set certain rules at home. Since me and Mr Hubby need to manage kids and house chaos ourselves, rules are a MUST!!!

Widad’s development:

  • Not much comparison on Widad since she was there after pantang. After all, she shows good developments despite of a never-ending-flu.. huhuh
We always complaint by saying ” I have paid monthly fees so I want the best for my kids”. Just bear in mind that they (nursery caregiver) are human being. They know the meaning of stress handling ‘active & naughty kids’, they also tired juggling between one kid to another kid, they also need rest and they also make mistakes.  Just imagine ourself in their shoes handling variety of kids behaviors. I think we might turn into green Hulk within hours. huhuh. Just doa supaya anak-anak kita selamat dibawah jagaan nursery.

Note : Amirul tak cukup makan sewaktu di nursery

She Now A Stairs Climber!!!

I cought her!! She climbed up the stairs and almost half to go to 2nd floor. No turning back, she just climbs up the stairs.

After she get her crawling license, Widad now expending her new skills. She now busy stand upright and cruising onto furniture while holding it. Just recently,  I found her another new skills. Climbing!!!

According to BabyCentre, she would climbs stairs by crawling up or down them on her hands and knees. However at the moment, she only climbing up the stairs. This activity actually helps to strengthen her large muscles and increase coordination so that, it will help her to develop walking skills

Note : I am busy mummy. Keep searching Widad’s location. Once i found her under the dining table, under the dining’s chair, behind the sofa, almost inside the store room, and not to mention at the kitchen looking for me.

My Breastfeeding Diary : Help by Palmer Cocoa Butter Nursing Cream

Ever since Widad has teeth, she had begun to bite my nipple everytime she drinks milk. While she enjoying sucking my nipple, suddenly she will bite, pull and release and keep doing that until I feel my nipple pain. Ouchh. It’s blistered and reddish and painful. Ohh anak..
Everytime, she bites my nipple, she would get a pinch from me and I would hear her voice crying out loud. aishhh. One night, after 40minutes of sucking, pulling, release and pain, I slept on stomach position to from avoid Widad  from sucks my nipple.  Yes, pity her but I cannot tahan the pain. She need me to soothe herself   but I avoiding her. Sorry sayang, nipple mummy tersangat pedih dan sakit.
Then, a friend of mine has suggested to use nursing cream. Remember that I had Cocoa Butter Nursing Cream in my drawer, I immediately apply on blistered area. This cream is safe to apply if the baby wants to breastfeed. Alhamdulillah, two days after, the effects of dry and blistered are recovered.
Photo from : Pakswholesale.com

Amirul in Potty Training Session

I bought potty pants and book as guidance. I am ready to start potty train for Amirul (hati penuh confident). But, how about him??

This book  do help me and Mr Hubby to train Amirul. Why specific book for boy?? Because boys are known to take longer, learn later than girls. This book give step-by-step guidance and Mr Hubby plays main character in Amirul’s training session.

Mummy yg excited beli potty pant cantik2.. huhuhuh

Somehow, deep in my heart this ‘one’ skills is really challenging me, Mr Hubby and also Amirul. This skill need to be train everyday with high patience (hati penuh confident lagi) or else, we need to spend a bulk of money only for his diaper.

Currently,

  • He will inform us if he had pass motion or his diaper already full or wet. I mean after finished doing his ‘business’ or his diaper really wet and almost leak, usually after he wakes up in the morning. However, we hoping that he will inform before he do the ‘business’.
  • After, he feel his diaper are ‘full’, or he done with his ‘business’, he told us ‘Amma, yak’ then immediately run to toilet and pull down his pant
  • Amirul has good bowel movement, I mean everyday, he will poop once or max thrice if he is not down with diarrhea. He’s squatting and sit at any corner and, I caught you Amirul..
  • If he not drinking milk, he can stay dry for almost 2 hours at a time

During the training session,

  • Everytime he feel his potty pant get wet, he immediately pull down his pant and go to toilet.
  • He still unmanaged to control his signs of poo/pee. By the time, he reached the toilet, the pant already wet.
  • We need to bring him to toilet every 30mins.

Note : We just train Amirul during weekend. Although, we think it may take longer times to train Amirul, at least, he will get use to it. Each weekend I can see the good progression and really hope Amirul can successfullly diaper free by end of the year

Note :P lease..please share with me any tips to help Amirul diaper free before he start his school next year.

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