Phobias; I Successfully Overcome It

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Driving Phobia
I’ve been driving a car nearly 7 years for now. Within 7 years, I was involved only 3 minor accidents. 1st, after 1month become a car driver. I accidentally hit a 1tonne lorry parked in front of our house. 2nd time, when I was waiting Mr Hubby at his office. Then a MPV limo suddenly reserved even tho i already give loud honk to give warning about my car behind him. The limo’s driver claim that my car is too small yet he can’t see my car. The last one when Widad was crying loudly struggling to come out from her car seat  and I was about to turn my body to see her. Without realizing it, I had lifted the right leg on break pedal. Then kedeboom.. my car kiss the front car..
Alhamdulillah, I successfully managed to overcome my fear with just one test. How I managed to pass the test, I also do not know. I was all panicked, sweating, shivering, my mouth non-stop berdoa.  I finally made it to finish line and the JPJ’s officer told me ” OK AWAK LULUS”.. fuhhhh
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Tocophobia Phobia or Childbirth Phobia
Giving birth to Amirul is really tough. 1st experience always leave a deep scar.. huhuh. Started with broken water bag in the middle of the night, 3 weeks earlier from EDD, lack of physical and mental preparations, no idea of how the right pushing technique, almost fainted due to excessive etonox gas and most of all, the nurse was wrongly sewn my perineum. They sewn twice. Ingat jahit baju ke kak oiI was very afraid to give birth. I afraid the same thing might happen to me again.

However, Alhamdulillah when came to Widad. I physically and mentally prepared. I googled the correct breathing technique to push the baby, I learn not to be panicked, I read about the correct and comfortable position while pushing the baby. Although Mr Hubby can not get into labor room, I managed to give birth after 20 minutes

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Water phobia
There is a small river connected to Sg Kelantan behind my house back to the hometown. During musim tengkujuh sure, rumah dinaiki air, still I do not how to swim. When I got married to Mr Hubby, his hobby is swimming. He will become like itik mendapat air, tergedik-gedik nak swimming. While he go swimming, I will only be on the edge of swimming pool while watching him excitedly swim.

However, last week, I had signed up for swimming class. Grouping class but one-to-one teaching method. I like !!! Its so fun when you able to float, breathing in the water and use sliding board. Can’t wait to swim with Mr Hubby. Finally I managed to overcome fear of water

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