Abang and Adik going to nursery, and this is what happened during 15minutes distance.
Amirul loves his sister but he also loves to
- Tease his Adik
- Listening to Adik’s tears
- Tug-of-war toy spats, backseat pinching
However, I found this sibling rivalry is positive things. When competition is happened, its mean they(kids) are actually try to attract parents’ attention. They competes to define who they are as individuals and want to show that they are separate from their siblings. For Amirul case, he wants to show that he is Abang. Abang is powerful like Ultraman (what Airul said). They want to be loved uniquely and special attention from us
Therefore, as a parent, no biased or comparison among children. I also hate if people compare me with others. Avoid having favorite child syndrome and give each child individual attention. Encourage teamwork and teach them about giving and sharing concept.
Although Amirul loves to tease Widad, but if I want to leave Widad, he must be crying.. Sayang Adik yea Amirul