Spanking you children? In educating and disciplining the children, I prefer my partner to determine which is the best for our children. Whether to be authoritative parent, authoritarian parent, or permissive parent. Above three parenting styles, my partner is believed that the authoritarian parenting is more effective in disciplining the children. Authoritarian parenting, also called strict parenting
So, one way to discipline our children is spanking. However, we do not blindly spanking our children. This is how we spanking our children :
[1] Spank in private
We spank them at home. However, if we are not at home, we will pinch them unnoticed by those around. Out of sudden, they only hear the kids were crying. Little threaten like, ” You want to get scold by mummy or not ?” also work sometimes
[2] Never harm the child
We would pinch on their thigh or spank on their calf using open hand
[3] Do not hit the child with implements or objects -
We have cane at home. Hang on together with the car’s key. It the most seen place at home. This cane be meant for their attention, as a warning sign and establish our authority
[4] Give them one warning
First is warning, if the warning is ignored, a pinch will descend on their thighs
Although some parents disagree with authoritarian parenting, but we believe authoritarian parenting have resulted more positive child outcomes , like more focused and have good achievement
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