You saw Kids React To Grumpy Cat video and this is Widad’s video how she makes a cat dancing
I seldom talk about Widad. My daughter. The one who gives me daily headache, the one who put a big grin on my face, the one who do things beyond my thinking, the one who is looking for me at night to sleep with, the one who has super power although time show 12 midnight. She is Widad Safiyyah. No matter what she does, I love her so much. A day without her, I feel the world is so silent and quiet.
What am I supposed to do when I saw this face. Melting .
One day, I received a report from her teacher :
Teacher : Pn, Widad is biting her friend – showing the two teeth marked.
Me : Adik, why do you bites your friend
Widad : Gigi adik tajam (My teeth is sharp)
Me : Should I scold her or laugh there and then.
You see this so called nice and behave kid shows thumb up and said I’m good at making pancake. Do you know she is shouting like someone is beating her up when the batter is finished. Not to mention the aftermath she did on the floor. Just forget it. She is exploring and in the learning process
Happy 3 Year Old Widad
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First day of school. New school,new environment, new teacher – wish you all the best dearie children. May you become soleh and solehah children. Amin
“Para ibu hendaklah menyusukan anak-anaknya selama dua tahun penuh, yaitu bagi yang ingin menyempurnakan penyusuan.”(Al-Baqarah : 233) [source : Halaqah.net]
According to surah Al-Baqarah : 233, A mother shall breastfeed their children for whole 2 years, for whoever desires to complete the term
 As for me, I’m still breastfeed Widad although she already 2Y 3M old. I’d try to wean her but she never let my breast off and away from her side.
 I’m planning to wean Widad, but the plan with no action is mean nothing at all. I want Widad to wean off slowly and naturally.
Why I still Breastfeed Widad
 I love the moment when Widad lay down on my lap and her hand touching my face. The world is only us.
 I love the sound of gulp gulp gulp coming out while nursing her. I justify myself that I had satisfy Widad’s nutritional and emotional needs
 I love the attachment between me and Widad. Amirul is Mummy’s boy, while Widad is Daddy’s girl. So while nursing her, is the moment where she snug me comfortably
 I love to become Widad’s soother whenever she is afraid of something. Daddy wanna scold her, she immediately ask for milk, Abang scold her still me, heard the loud thunder, run for me and suckle my breast. I’m really her soother.
So when Do I wean??
Erhm, maybe next year, or I should conceive and tell her ” Adik, little baby want to drink milk, pity her if you drink all Mummy’s milk”
Do you remember Kisah Sang Kancil dan buaya, Jangan Monyet, Bagai Anjing dan bayang-bayang, Kisah Gagak yang bijak and few more.
These are the stories that I’m grow up with. Simple stories that is full of examples and messages. Good for toddlers and preschooler. Unlike kids nowadays who like to watch Ben 10, Boboiboy, Upin & Ipin, Princess Barbie – not forgetting my own Amirul & Widad, exposing to this stories may develop their correct Bahasa malayu, and proverb, and not forgetting adding new vocabulary. I do not know that mergastua is animals live in the jungle. I though mergastua is a bird. huhuhu
Recently, there is tv programs at Astro, Pada Zaman Dahulu. This tv series is about Aris and Ara as they experience the simple life in the village and embark on Sang Kancil’s adventures. Tho is new version of Kisah dan Teladan, I still prefer to have Kisah dan Teladan from Filem Negara Malaysia tho its animation is less attractive compare to Pada Zaman Dahulu series.
I started to introduce the Amirul and Widad to these stories and they are really enjoy with this simple yet entertaining.The message is easily understood
The following are the Kisah dan Teladan stories that i like
Kisah Sangkancil dan Buaya :
Lesson learn :
 Air yang tenang jangan di sangka tiada buaya
 Sepandai-pandai tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh ke tanah jua
 Orang yang diam jangan disangka pengecut.
 Orang pandai kadang-kadang buat silap
kisah jangan monyet
Lesson Learn : kita hendaklah mendengar nasihat orang lain
Kisah Gagak yang Bijak :
Lesson Learn : Byk perkara yang dapat diselesaikan sekiranya kita menggunakan akal
Kisah arnab dan kura-kura :
Lesson Learn : Jangan menghina orang yang lemah, kerana menghina itu akan merugikan diri sdn
Children when they frustrated/ acquired for attention/ in the disappointment, they will throw out tantrums. Tantrums strike regardless place or time. They will shouting, roll on the floor, rush around the room; wild and screaming throwing things in his hand like toys, milk bottles, etc. They actually out of control; neither we nor them can control their own feeling.
She may scream and scream until she makes herself hoarse; makes herself retch; even makes herself throw up [ source: Babycentre]
Amirul : 4 years old
Amirul starts SULKING / WHINING/ SCREAMING -
with this one powerful sentence ” Abang nk kena cubit/ scold ker?? ” terus Amirul behave
Video : Widad : 2years Old
How to handle tantrums :
Happy Teacher’s Day
I’d read this article at parenting.com which i found quite interesting. The real difference between boy and girl. Alhamdulillah. I have a pair which me and Mr Hubby feel the differences between rising a little prince and princess
Little Ben 10 was here!! Ready for actions
Daddy’s LittlePrincess is in the house
Its amazing true and rising both of them giving us new challenges and adventures
My cheeky baby turn 2 today. I love you darling Widad
2 years old milestone :
We are abang & adik .Peace no war
One word to describe the feeling when taking out both Amirul and Widad without Mr Hubby.
fuh means two things. Its amazing.  Its tiring
This is my first time having kids day out without Mr Hubby. 3hours at Alamanda Putrajaya is such an amazing and tiring experience to me.
Amazing because i can handle one cheeky toddler and one shy but full of idea in mind toddler. 1st, i brought them to Toys r us. ok la. both of them behave despite of Amirul keep repeating “Mummy Abang nk Transformer”. and mummy lak keep repeating.. “ooo kna wait daddy Abang. Mummy xde duit”. ok.mummy xde duit.nt abang mntk duit ngn Daddy. selama dlm Toys r us, Amirul dok ckp cmtue. huhu
Then i brought them to playgroud area near to Parkson. ok la dorang main.
kemain lg dok main kan
Then lunch at Pizza. This one very choatic. Abang Adik both lapar and started to cranky. Ayohhhh.pengsan. Both keep asking for soup, adik nk milk, abang adik main sudu garfu.ketuk2. Mummy started to be an anoyying customer. kejap mntk sup.kejap mntk sudu plastic…huhuhu.
In the middle of eating, Amirul lak nk yakyak.pingsan skali lagi..Adussss.Settle yakyak. continue eating then i decided to directly go back home. tak mau singgah mner2 dh. Penat dh..adoiii nak balik, dorang started to be cranky again. Maybe both dh sleepy sbb pnt main n kekenyang. Berebut naik stroller la. Pastu both xmo dok stroller la. nak main kejar2 la..
Moh le pulang wahai anak. Mummy sudah pingsan. How i which to have octopus hands. So that i can hold both of Amirul Widad’s hand n push the stroller and held the plastic bag.aishhhh
Fuhhhh. What an amazing and tiring day for Mummy..
Presenting our tikus mondok aka Widad Safiyyah. Sorry adik, Mummy knows is cruel to call you such name but you are just like tikus mondok, very lincah and naughty and always make Mummy and Daddy exhausted. Either Mummy Daddy getting older or Adik have such powerful batteries which every minutes is charging. Fuhhhhhh
At age of 22 months old, According to BabyCentre, Widad :
She is tough and loves to explore
Photo by : tifotter
If YES, that you are a working mother with toddlers and no maid, I would like to share tips and tricks perhaps useful for you in managing your house, children and enjoy your ME time as well
HOUSEKEEPING / ORGANIZING
Clothes – I do my laundry twice a week except for children’s school uniforms
Tips & Tricks :
 Clean and tidiness -
FOODS / EATING/ KITCHEN CHORES
Instant foods is not recommended but if you are working, foods preparation is very time consuming. What i normally do is marinate the chicken and put in freezer, before I go to work, just place the the chicken at chiller compartment and by the time I’m coming back the chicken already defrost. Place the chicken on the pan and roasted it. EASY, QUICK, HEALTHY. The only vegie that available in my fridge are carrot and mushroom. Just steam or fry with no oil. We eat rice only on weekend. Instead of eating rice we opt for mee/spaghetti. With a lot of frozen foods like sausages, chicken ball, nugget, crab finger, you name it, all in my fridge. Don’t fry with oil the sausages/nuggets etc, put in your fying pan put in slow heat and leave it wait until cook.
While waiting your foods to be ready, you can have you children-parent quality time like asking what they did at school, watching tv , play together.
We have foods heaven only on weekend either at MIL’s house or dining at fancy restaurant. MIL always says, eat like a beggar during weekdays and like a king during weekend.. huhuh
I’m doing the cooking, Mr Hubby do the cleaning.
Yeay now house is clean, kids is sleeping. Mummy and daddy can have Me time. Now My Hubby plays guitar and I updating this post.
Widad Milestones, 21 months old
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