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You are 29 today and We are 5

Happy birthday yayang Mujahid
May Allah grant all wish come true.amin

Happy 5th anniversary to us jahid
May Allah grant us happiness and rezeki yg diberkati.amin

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you can depend on me if your glasses if broken.

Wish List

Dear Mr Hubby

If you still have no idea what to give me for our anniversary. Here is the wish list that I WISH to have. :P

 

miranda pavé wrapped enamel band ring

Stella Resin Watch

Stella Stainless Steel Watch – Brown & Rose

Machine Stainless Steel watch

NOTE : Will update time to time, so Mr Hubby please read this email regularly.. muah. I LOVE U YAYANG..

Hormone Imbalance is No Good and Very Annoying

I’m sharing this dysfunctional uterine bleeding that I’m having right now. Its not serious illness but may need monitor if the severity level increase. Read here for more info on dysfunctional uterine bleeding via WebMd.  However, i think  my symptoms more on abnormal uterine bleeding. same ker??? ntah. just read here for more details

The Symptoms :

  • Irregular period
  • 1st cycle is Spotting
  • 2nd cycle is normal period, 5 – 7 days

Why do i concern about??

  • I may be pregnant without realize  it, since i cannot track my menstrual cycle. It not 28/30 days but 15/21 days
  • How to perform solat. After 15days of period kan consider darah penyakit. so camno ni???
  • Is this side effects for taking Noriday for almost 2 years? Ohh no. nak control cara apa ni?? IUD – takut , self control – xreti, condom – eeiii tak best,

You also may have bleeding if you do not take your pills at a regular time each day – WebMd

1st appointment the gynea diagnose :

  • Imbalance hormone – erhmm
  • Stress – Am i?? I don’t think so. I still can smile and laugh happily. I watch Kpop drama, teacher to Amirul, daily routine is fine.. nothing go wrong i think.. hehhuhuh

Extreme emotional stress and excessive exercise. But excessive exercise more frequently causes an absence of menstruation (amenorrhea)- WebMd

  • Discharge – Yup, its quite troublesome and very uncomfortable. anyone having discharge, Share with me how to reduce it or prevent it
  • I was given hormone pill and may continue Noriday – Nothing change. Spotting and irregular period still happened

imageNoriday for 28 days. Once you finish you need to continue for new pack

2nd appointment, the gynea:

  • Gave me Yasmin and i need to stop Noriday immediately. Both are contraceptive pill.
  • Noriday no more effective to my body which make my uterus wall thinning irregularly
  • Take the yasmin and see for 2 month, how does the Yasmin do. If ok, continue, if not. kita check lagi yer

imageYasmin for 21 days

NOTE : My review on Yasmin, contraceptive pill that help me to have 2 year 3 mths  gap between Amirul and Widad

7d6n 2011 Aidilfitri @ Kelantan

I spend 1week in Kelantan. Its really nice when you can spend the whole week with your family. huhuh. (next year kita raya rumah Jahid dulu yea :D ) Although this year is the 1st year Raya without Abah, we still feel the joy of togetherness though deep inside we miss Abah. Not much photos were taken during Hari Raya because we too enjoy the foods and relatives until forget to snap the photo.

Family Photo

Visiting pusara Abah

Amirul excited meeting with real rooster

Quack.. Quack.. Mummy Itik la..

Visiting relatives

Cousin’s wedding

NOTE: more raya story after this. :D

We going back to Kelantan to celebrate Aidilfitri

Insya Allah, this year I will celebrate Aidilfitri at my home town, Kelantan. 2 consecutive years in Bangi during Aidilfitri left my heart crying missing the family at Kelantan.  After Abah passed away, I had made revision/amendment to our Balik Raya agreement. huhuh. Macam apa jekan, ada revision bagai..

The original agreement is : Sekiranya tahun ini adalah giliran berhari raya bersama keluarga suami, maka kami akan pulang ke Kelantan untuk berbuka puasa at least 3 hari bersama keluarga saya dan kami tidak akan pulang berhari raya di Kelantan

The new agreement is : Sekiranya tahun ini adalah giliran berhari raya bersama keluarga suami, maka, hari raya ke-2/3, kami akan pulang ke Kelantan.

Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) is important to avoid any any misunderstanding or miscommunication in the future. Although we do not have documented agreement, but we have official aggrement. Just do what I did.. Take your hand phone and go to video mode, take the video of you and your hubby agree on that revision/amendment.eg : “Jahid since Abah dah xder, everytime raya, huda nak blk raya kt Kelantan tau. if tahun ni umh Jahid, raya ke-2/3 blk Kelantan ek”wait until he say “YES” and stop the video..  :D

 NOTE: Its just 4th Ramadhan, believe it or not, I already pack our baju raya.

Red Apple for Him

Another birthday, another wishlist. As usual i will ask for his wishlist so that I won’t end up surprise him with things that he will give big frown in return. Again another gadget will add to his collections.

2007 – Sony MP3
2008 – Asus Laptop (sell 2nd to her mother)
2009 – Ipod Touch
2010 – Ipad
2011 – Ipod Nano

His gadgets wishlist

Red Apple for him

Note : Yayang, I prepared already my birthday wishlist. Nanti I email u ok.. :D

You make we wanna say I do, I do, I do, I do, I do, I do….. Love you

Movie date with Mr Hubby watching Capt Jack  continue his adventure in Pirate of Caribbean 4 :On Stranger Tides

Lamb Chop for Birhday Daddy

My mouth is too big for a fries.. huhuh

Happy 4th Anniversary for us. May Allah grant us with health and wealth


I Do by Colbie Caillat

Birthday gift for Mr Hubby : Another gadget from Apple

Anniversary gift for me: Canon IXUS 300

Note : Semoga Allah mempermudahkan urusan rumahtangga kami dan dijauhi dari musibah yang tidak diingini. Amin

We are 4 today.


Happy 4th anniversary Yayang. May Allah grant us with happy life, good health, soleh and solehah kids, and wealth. Amin

Happy Birthday Yayang. Hugs and Kisses from Huda, Amirul & Widad

Note : I have movie date with Mr Hubby and Capt Jack!!!

Happiness Is A Hitchhiker

Photo: ePi.Longo

I was 24 when I married to my wife. And believe me, it was the happiest day of my life. That happiness ended in just a couple of days. Then I was stuck within myself, a cloak of fear coated me ; this marriage is a journey. A long joyful and miserable journey. For the first time of my life — I was so afraid. I thought, when we married, we would always be happy, full of laughter and all.

4 years now and the word happiness is irrelevant. It’s so unfit with the marriage world.

4 years now and I realized that it’s all about being grown up. Responsibility and sustainability. And happiness is just a hitchhiker — it doesn’t stay long.

Corey Allan wrote

First and foremost, marriage is designed to help you grow up. It’s not about happiness. It’s not about becoming more complete, despite what Hollywood and popular press would like you to believe. Marriage is about growing. Happiness will accompany you at times along the way, but it’s not the ultimate goal.

I’m agree with Corey Allan that the happiness is not the ultimate goal of the marriage . It’s the only way forward for me to become mature with making decisions in life — there are no promises of happiness. Plus, in Islam, marriage is about getting complete with a half of the our religious demand.

[Relationships are easy via ZenHabits]

Relationship And The Listening Ear

Photo: aftab

One thing that I learned about a girl — especially my girl , is that she wants to share all the problem in the world, even the problem is not hers, and she talks even when I watch a movie. In the end, she frown in frustration as I always gave solutions right before she finished talking. Or, I  didn’t want to listen about it so I simply ignored it. Then, I realized that’s not the way to treat a girl — especially my girl. Most of the girls actually knew the solution, which I find it so outrageous. They only want somebody to talk with.

Celes wrote:

“Giving solutions when the person is really looking for a listening ear. Probably an understatement: A lot of times what people want is a listening ear. Deep down, people have solutions to the problems they are facing – they are just looking for someone to share their frustrations with because they have had a long and hard day. I had a friend who would always butt in with suggestions whenever I shared my frustrations. Our conversations became stifling – in the end I stopped talking about them altogether because I wasn’t getting the refuge I wanted. Be more conscious of what the other party is looking for, and adjust accordingly to fit that.”

I slowly change my attitude and try to listen about anything she wants to talk about. Even though my mind will be going somewhere the moment she starts to open her mouth, I’ll try and try hard to nod and smile.

[10 thing what not to do in relationship via StepcaseLifeHack]

[Self exp]

“Giving solutions when the person is really looking for a listening ear. Probably an understatement: A lot of times what people want is a listening ear. Deep down, people have solutions to the problems they are facing – they are just looking for someone to share their frustrations with because they have had a long and hard day. I had a friend who would always butt in with suggestions whenever I shared my frustrations. Our conversations became stifling – in the end I stopped talking about them altogether because I wasn’t getting the refuge I wanted. Be more conscious of what the other party is looking for, and adjust accordingly to fit that.”

[10 thing what not to do in relationship via how ]

Us after 3 years

Me and Hubby. Mr hubby getting fatter compare the 1st time I met him. Saya berjaya menggemokkan En Somi sebanyak 5kg. Tapi sila kuruskan badan yea,yayang!!!!! Nanti kiter sama-sama exercise

Mengingati Mati

Sudah hampir seminggu abah meninggal dunia, namun masih lagi terasa seperti semalam. Alhamdulillah semuanya telah selesai. Namun, Mama masih lagi bersedih kerana telah kehilangan teman hidupnya. 34tahun mengharungi suka duka membesarkan dan mendidik kami adik beradik, semoga Mama akan menjadi lebih tabah menghadapi dugaan Allah ini. Aku sekeluarga telah kembali melakukan rutin harian seperti biasa, namun, kenangan bersama Abah masih lagi segar diingatan. Lebih-lebih, aku berada disisi Abah sewaktu beliau menghembus nafasnya yang terakhir. Aku sememangnya naif kerana tidak menyangka keadaan Abah yang disangka lelah/sesak nafas merupakan, saat dimana malaikat Izrail sedang mengambil nyawanya.

Sesungguhnya kehilangan Abah betul-betul menginsafkan aku dan membuatkan aku lebih mendekatkan diri dengan Allah. Terasa seperti kerdilnya diri ini apabila mengingati tentang amalan yang bakal dibawa untuk berjumpa dengan-Nya. Adakah cukup amalanku, sudah bersediakah aku untuk menghadapi saat kematian yang tidak mungkin boleh di tunda pada keesokan harinya, adakah aku mampu menahan kesakitan dikala saat roh berpisah dengan jasad. Secara jujur aku katakan yang aku takut untuk menempuh saat kematiaan setelah melihat dengan mataku sendiri sewaktu Abah menghembus nafasnya yang terakhir. Apabila teringat saat dikala Abah menghembus nafasnya yang terakhir, terus aku berusaha untuk lebih mendekatkan diri dengan Allah, berusaha untuk menambah amalan kebaikan untuk dibawa bersama setelah roh berpisah dengan jasad.

Nabi SAW bersabda : “Apabila seorang anak Nabi Adam AS meninggal dunia maka terputuslah (pahala) amalannya kecuali dari (pahala) tiga (3) perkara iaitu sedekah jariah, ilmu (yang dicurahkan) yang dimanfaatkan dan anak soleh yang mendoakan (rahmat dan keampunan) untuknya.” HR al-Imam Muslim (261H).

Maksud “ anak Nabi Adam AS” ialah manusia iaitu keturunan Nabi Adam AS.

Maksud “ sedekah jariah” ialah sedekah yang manfaatnya berteruasan seperti bina surau , sekolah, masjid, tempat menunggu bas dan lain-lain.

Maksud “ilmu (yang dicurahkan) yang dimanfaatkan” ialah pengetahuan yang telah disampaikan yang dapat diperoleh manfaat daripadanya seperti fardhu ain, ilmu kejuruteraan, ilmu sains, ilmu menangkap ikan di dalam sungai dan laut dan lain-lain.

Maksud “anak soleh yang mendoakan (rahmat dan keampunan) untuknya” adalah jelas. Inilah peranan anak yang soleh. Allah SWT Maha Mendengar doa hamba-hambanya.

Untuk membaca tentang tanda-tanda kematian seseorang, sila rujuk disini

Note : Sama-sama lah kita saling ingat-mengingati diantara satu sama lain. Insya Allah

Ibu Susuan, Perkara yang Perlu diKetahui

Photo by: Family.glam

Note : Ini adalah kemusykilan yang saya hadapi apabila Ibu saya tidak menggalakkan saya menyusui anak saudara perempuan yang baru lahir.

Apakah syarat untuk menjadi ibu susuan

  • Anak yg disusui hendaklah 5kali kenyang, Anak yang disusui hendaklah tidak melebihi 2tahun, samada susu ibu diberikan kepada anak secara terus atau dipam dan disimpan, kemudian berikan kepada anak tersebut. (Rujukan dari Ruangan Soal Jawab Kemusykilan Agama & Brunet.bn)

Apakah kedudukan anak susuan (perempuan) dgn suami, anak2 lelaki dan saudara2 lelaki didalam keluarga kita?

  • Anak susuan menjadi mahram ibu susuannya
  • Tidaklah ia mewarisi harta
  • Suami kepada ibu susuan bayi itu tidak boleh menjadi wali kepada bayi susuan itu ketika dewasa nanti ( Rujukan : Zaharuddin.net)

Apakah hubungan anak susuan dgn anak2 kandung ibu susuan ( yg bayi dan adik beradik yg lain

  • Hubungan antara anak susuan dengan anak kandung ibu susuan adalah adik beradik sesuan, mereka tidak boleh kahwin sampai bila-bila samada yang masih bayi atau yang lain

Adapun hubungannya dengan suami puan, Syarak telah menetapkan kaedah berdasarkan hadis Nabi s.a.w.; “Diharamkan kerana penyusuan sama seperti orang-orang yang diharamkan kerana Nasab” (HR Imam al-Bukhari dan Muslim dari Ibnu ‘Abbas r.a.). Kerana itu, suami puan adalah bapanya (yakni bapa kerana penyusuan). Ibu suami puan adalah neneknya. Kakak suami puan adalah ibu saudaranya. Dan anak lelaki suami puan adalah saudara lelakinya. Ke semua mereka menjadi mahramnya (yakni mahram kerana penyusuan). Harus ia berduaan dengan mereka jika aman fitnah dan haram ke atasnya mengahwini mereka. Aurat mereka di hadapannya sama seperti aurat mereka di hadapan mahram-mahram yang lain. (Rujukan : Halaqah.net)

Apakah hubungan ibu kandung anak susuan dan anak2 kandung ibu susuan.

  • Hubungan ibu kandung anak susuan dengan anak-anak kandung susuan adalah seperti orang lain juga iaitu saudara dalam Islam.

Note : Sekiranya ada info yang boleh dikongsi, jangan lupa tinggalkan comment

Happy Birthday Yayang and Happy Anniversary

Happy Birthday Yayang

Thanks for unlimited love you give to us.

From Amirul
Daddy, I’m so thankful to Allah for having such a lovely daddy like you. Eventho u like to pinch my thigh, I knew u did that bcoz u love me. You want me to become a good brother and give a good example for my other siblings. Daddy is a friend to me and I LOVE DADDY SO MUCH

From Widad
Daddy,eventho i just knew you for 29days, i can feel your warmth of love. LOVE U DADDY

From Huda aka Mummy
Yayang, your unlimited love is priceless and I LOVE U SO MUCH

NOTE : Don’t forget hadiah anniversary Huda yer..muahhh..macih

Thanks Yayang

Thanks Yayang,

I love you so much.

A small gift from Mr Hubby

Cute Bear & Chocolates

Beryl’s Chocolate

Note : There is a story behind this small surprised aka gift.. Lets it be my sweetest moment for me. Mr Hubby bukan romantic orangnya, so bler he gave me something, its really make my day.

Thanks Yayang

Thanks Yayang,

I love you so much.

A small gift from Mr Hubby

Cute Bear & Chocolates

Beryl’s Chocolate

Note : There is a story behind this small surprised aka gift.. Lets it be my sweetest moment for me. Mr Hubby bukan romantic orangnya, so bler he gave me something, its really make my day.

Choosing The Right Hospital

Photo by: Igorlando

After doing a budget list upon Amirul’s needs and wants; clothes, milk, stroller, toys, and medical, we have to accept that, we couldn’t afford to have Amirul at private hospital. It could consume all our money, forcing us to take loan if we couldn’t settle the bill. We turned our head to public hospital, specifically Hospital Putrajaya. My wife got hook by her elder sister’s testimony about the hospital, that the nurses are friendly, the wardroom is spacious, and the food is practically acceptable.    

We like to share about Our Tips For Choosing The Right Hospital For You;
[1] The nearest hospital.
We registered at the nearest hospital to our house. In  early 2008, We were planning to have a Amirul at private hospital. After all, Amirul is our first baby we should enjoy by celebrating at the private one, despite our money jar is getting empty. But we reconsidered it, after recalculating our money (not enough to pay private hospital!!) and the reliable private hospital was 20 km away from our house. We saved that money into Amirul’s savings instead. 

[2] Well-equipped facilities and well-experienced experts. 
Maybe private hospital have some fancy gadgets with advanced technology, that everyone should not ignore. And there’s no reason that they cannot setting the price high, equals with their services, and their doctors. But for me, it is sufficient enough for hospital that armed with moderate facilities and well-experienced experts. There’s no need for Superexperts to cater my needs.  

[3] Moral Support for Wife.
What I like about hospital putrajaya is that they invite the husband or a relative inside the labor room, so that wife can outperform during pushing and screaming. I was inside the labor room when Amirul came out, but I did only a little part in moral supporting  because I felt numb and frozen like a stone at that time. I hope for this upcoming baby, I can give a full force of screaming, “Push, Honey! Our baby’s coming, Pushh!” 

[4] A hospital that recommends immediate breastfeed.

My wife has wielded her loyalty to breastfeeding. I as her partner, support her in every ways. There are some hospitals that support breastfeeding after laboring, but some aren’t. We have to ask first whether they recommend immediate breastfeeding after laboring, or not.

For our upcoming baby, we have planned to have ours at the same hospital Amirul was delivered. We have a good memory with Amirul there. And we, without hesitation, put our trust on the hospital for our second baby.

Further reading: [1] [2] [3] [4]

Choosing The Right Hospital

Photo by: Igorlando

After doing a budget list upon Amirul’s needs and wants; clothes, milk, stroller, toys, and medical, we have to accept that, we couldn’t afford to have Amirul at private hospital. It could consume all our money, forcing us to take loan if we couldn’t settle the bill. We turned our head to public hospital, specifically Hospital Putrajaya. My wife got hook by her elder sister’s testimony about the hospital, that the nurses are friendly, the wardroom is spacious, and the food is practically acceptable.    

We like to share about Our Tips For Choosing The Right Hospital For You;
[1] The nearest hospital.
We registered at the nearest hospital to our house. In  early 2008, We were planning to have a Amirul at private hospital. After all, Amirul is our first baby we should enjoy by celebrating at the private one, despite our money jar is getting empty. But we reconsidered it, after recalculating our money (not enough to pay private hospital!!) and the reliable private hospital was 20 km away from our house. We saved that money into Amirul’s savings instead. 

[2] Well-equipped facilities and well-experienced experts. 
Maybe private hospital have some fancy gadgets with advanced technology, that everyone should not ignore. And there’s no reason that they cannot setting the price high, equals with their services, and their doctors. But for me, it is sufficient enough for hospital that armed with moderate facilities and well-experienced experts. There’s no need for Superexperts to cater my needs.  

[3] Moral Support for Wife.
What I like about hospital putrajaya is that they invite the husband or a relative inside the labor room, so that wife can outperform during pushing and screaming. I was inside the labor room when Amirul came out, but I did only a little part in moral supporting  because I felt numb and frozen like a stone at that time. I hope for this upcoming baby, I can give a full force of screaming, “Push, Honey! Our baby’s coming, Pushh!” 

[4] A hospital that recommends immediate breastfeed.

My wife has wielded her loyalty to breastfeeding. I as her partner, support her in every ways. There are some hospitals that support breastfeeding after laboring, but some aren’t. We have to ask first whether they recommend immediate breastfeeding after laboring, or not.

For our upcoming baby, we have planned to have ours at the same hospital Amirul was delivered. We have a good memory with Amirul there. And we, without hesitation, put our trust on the hospital for our second baby.

Further reading: [1] [2] [3] [4]
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