Let Talk About Sex: After The Baby
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Let talk about sex: After the baby have some awesome questions about sex after the baby came out.
As for my experience, I start having sex 120 days after giving birth. It’s about 4 months of cravings and feeling numb. I’m a kind of husband who really needs that kind of intimacy once in every 2 days — I always want it everyday, actually — but I have to reconsider the quantity to once in every week because we have two kids right, and no housemaid to do cleaning and all. So, the first two months, it was no problem. The third and all the way to the fourth month, my mind went insane like I was in Jupiter or somewhere strange, and I started I have nightmares.
The reason I want the 120 days rule to work, is because I want to avoid unexpected bleeding, a risk for hemorrhage — which is very bad, or uterine infection.
And above all that, one question caught my attention,
Baby center wrote:
“Q:How will having a new baby in our lives change our feelings toward each other?
A: You may find (or your partner may sense) that the intensity of the bond you’re developing with your new baby makes you somewhat less emotionally available. On the other hand, a new baby can bring such joy to your lives that it enhances sexual intimacy.If your mate is feeling jealous or intimidated by your new relationship with the baby, try to reassure him that you still love and need him. And make sure that he has plenty of opportunity to care for and bond with the baby as well. Sharing the joys and frustrations of parenthood can be very rewarding and can even intensify your romantic feelings for each other.”
To get out of curiosity about other husbands who just have babies, I have voted a survey, and came the result like this;
My vote was this; Yes, motherhood has made her even hotter. In bed. Guess many husbands feel the same.
Plus, She became slimmer than ever after our baby Widad.
To me, romantic relationship is when we know we have determination to change physically and emotionally to impress each other.